Reflective Media Reviews

Tag: Aging

The Wife ****

The Wife

Like most movies I see, especially this time of year, if a film is up for a major award, I purposefully avoid any reviews or other information about the film. I usually go in knowing only what I might have seen on a preview. And I’m so pleased when a film delivers something particularly interesting. The…

Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End (Atul Gawande) *****

Read this book.  Everyone.  Soon.   Now. No, it’s not an easy subject matter.  But it addresses one of the absolute guarantees of life:  death. I originally bought this book, having heard the author interviewed on a podcast discussing end-of-life issues, for work.  I often discuss end-of-life issues with clients as we talk about advanced…

Grandma *****

What a fun movie! Granted, as I learned from reading the thoughts of another who saw the movie at the same time as I did, the film is not for everyone. But for me and my movie companions, it was a hit. Lily Tomlin delivers a fresh and spunky performance as the complexly layered grandmother…

Mr. Holmes ****

I love that spark of excitement that happens when, with fall on the horizon, I see that first grand performance of the movie year.  That happened with Ian McKellan’s performance in Mr. Holmes. The film is indeed about that Mr. Holmes, as in Sherlock.  But I didn’t go because I’m a fan of that literature.  And…

While We’re Young ***

While We’re Young is a pleasant, easy movie, good for some relaxing and enjoyable laughs. Set as a movie regarding a couple in their early 40s at the crossroads of watching a carefree youth set sail over the horizon while they settle down into the stable, shored life they’ve built for themselves, the film rings…

The Judge ***

Families are complicated. They’re often messy. Those messes can devolve and destroy and devour some. Too often people stay in a bad relationship with family members simply because of shared genetics, allowing abuse and hurt to fester and spoil. But sometimes those bad moments are misunderstood and need to be worked out. Sometimes time does…

Nebraska *****

If you are over 40, please be sure you see Nebraska. It’s an incredible heartwarming, emotion-tugging, eye-opening, reality-grounding, laugh-out-loud film about aging, parents, family, middle-age, love, acceptance, understanding, and life. And it is excellent. Granted, for the first half hour, I found myself waiting for one of Will Forte’s SNL characters to turn to the…

Las Vegas **

I didn’t plan to see Last Vegas, but when a friend asked at 7:20 pm if I wanted to go see a movie that night, we picked what was showing. Among what was available and what both of us were willing and in a mood to see, we walked into the theater to see Last…